By Daniel Rigney
You’ve probably heard the saying that if you want something done well, you should ask someone who’s already busy to do it. People who are busy are busy for a reason. They get things done.
I would add: Find someone who’s busy and who has trouble saying “no.”
If you’re frequently on the receiving end of such requests, and you’re already weary and heavy-laden but can’t seem to say no to new requests and demands -- even when you could politely refuse without fear of reprisal – I offer this handy and potentially life-saving guide to burnout prevention.
Here’s how to say no in twenty languages:
P.S.: For these and 500 additional words for “no,” see Jennifer's Language Page, from which I culled this small selection with permission.
Why not send this along to someone you know who's overcommitted and might benefit from it?
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You’ve probably heard the saying that if you want something done well, you should ask someone who’s already busy to do it. People who are busy are busy for a reason. They get things done.
I would add: Find someone who’s busy and who has trouble saying “no.”
If you’re frequently on the receiving end of such requests, and you’re already weary and heavy-laden but can’t seem to say no to new requests and demands -- even when you could politely refuse without fear of reprisal – I offer this handy and potentially life-saving guide to burnout prevention.
Here’s how to say no in twenty languages:
Albanian Jo
American Nope, Uh-Uh, No way
Apache Dah
Arabic Lay, La or Laa
Basque Ez
Cantonese Mhai’
Danish Jen
Farsi Nah
French Non
German Nein
Hawaiian ‘A’ ole
Hindi Naheen (and others)
Manchu Waka
Maori Aka
Nepali Ahaa
Russian Nyet
Tagalog Hindi (po)
Tibetan Yo
Zulu Cha
Zuni ‘Ella
Or as Bartleby the Scrivener would say, “I prefer not to.”P.S.: For these and 500 additional words for “no,” see Jennifer's Language Page, from which I culled this small selection with permission.
Why not send this along to someone you know who's overcommitted and might benefit from it?
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